Thursday, October 22, 2009

I am so tired

Tired of secrets.

Secret cell phones we are  just finding out that Rush had.

Secret facebook accounts that she had to hide from us who she was really spending her time with.

Secret purchases.  Like buying a Ipod instead of paying money on her fine.

Secret friends.

Secret drinking that we found out about.

Secret pregnancy test that I found as well.

Now I am finding out that a young lady we told (as well as our church leadership told) to leave Rush alone and not talk to her is added to this secret facebook account, texting her on this secret phone, and feeding her all sorts of crap by telling her things like she understands why Rush did what she did and validating Rush's behavior.

Please, if you can't respect me enough to honor my wishes regarding MY daughter at least respect and love her enough to speak into her life instead of feeding her full of justifications for dishonoring my family!


  1. I'm sorry that people have betrayed you in a situation that is so close to you and with a person that is so dear to you.

  2. It sounds like there are still many unanswered questions. I hope you have got to the point that you have all the information you need to move forward.

  3. Oh my goodness... this must be so hard for all of you to handle. I'm so sorry you're going through all of these betrayals and heartaches. It must be so rough on the family! I hope that you come to some closure with all of this and work towards resolving the conflicts it causes in your heart. If you need anything, you know we're always here to listen and help as best we can! Sending hugs your way.

  4. Thank you, friends! Thank you very much! It is hardest I think because i can't talk to her about it at this point. She just is not even open to acknowledge the things she has done wrong - she simply refuses to talk about anything.